Guess what, Buttercup? When you start to dive into developing your psychic abilities, you’ll be a like a beacon. A light out in the vast Universe, that will attract a lot of people. That’s just a side effect of this magical journey.

Sometimes you will look around you and feel blessed. “How did these amazing souls make their way into my tribe?” And you will feel warm and fuzzy. Sometimes, you’ll look around and think…ew.  Maybe it’s an energy vampire, someone who wants your attention. constantly. Maybe it’s someone who sort of brings down your vibe, or can’t seem to play well with others. It’s OK, peaches! This is part of your process.

You become like a magnet, attracting others into your sphere. But once they are there, you get to decide if they stay. If someone takes advantage of your generous nature, set a boundary, preferably with them on the outside of this new boundary. If someone says negative things about you – out they go! Seriously. There is nothing more sacred than your own energy and your sacred circle.

When someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM. They are either elevating and adding to your experience, or they aren’t.  Why waste time, space, and energy on others who don’t align with you?

It doesn’t have to get into a whole ugly thing, and you don’t owe anyone anything. This is YOUR journey. Sometimes agitators are  wonderful gifts in your life. They allow you to get crystal clear on your belief systems. You get rock solid on what matters to you and what you want more of in your life.

Those who are meant for you, will come to you. Doesn’t mean they have to stay, if they don’t fit into your most spiritual, positive experience.  When you experience an energetic mismatch, you don’t have to beat yourself up. Simply ask yourself what you were meant to learn from the interaction.

Look at the lesson. Then bless and release, cupcake! It’s really that easy.

Your vibe, your tribe, your experience, it’s all up to you. So get really clear on what you are willing to allow and accept into your life. If you do not, you will keep attracting opportunities that allow you to figure out what you don’t like.

Be brave, be proud, and be open to creating the best life experience you can.